Venus through the Houses

Venus Through the Houses Venus shows how we show love, and what kind of partner we are attracted to. In a female chart, it shows how she feels worthy of herself & what gives her confidence & in a male chart it will describe the wife or the type of partner he is looking for. Remember these are all just ONE aspect of someone’s chart and you can’t interpret a person’s chart by looking at just ONE aspect. The chart has to be interpreted as a whole. For some people, the info here might not 100% resonate, because there might be other aspects to Venus and/or other planets in the same house, which change the interpretation   Venus in 1st House Venus in 1st house is the house of physical body & self. Having Venus here, means you are very strongly identified & attracted to the physical body, It’s very important to you that you dress well & to be pleasing to the eye, to the ear to the physical body. You are attracted to people who are like that & to people who are also more agreeable. A woman’s chart shows how worthy you feel about yourself, that your body is very important, and how you look. To an extent, you get what you want. Having Venus here brings you a lot of luck with things Venus rules: beauty, pleasure, aesthetics, finances! It is important for you to be sensual, and loving, these things are very important to you. You are a very charming, attractive partner, you speak softly & people are often drawn to you.     Venus in 2nd House Venus in 2nd house represents financial resources & security but also the face. The person will have a very beautiful face & also will be attracted to those with beautiful faces. The person is also attracted to soft beautiful voices. A man with this placement will look for a traditional woman, he wants her to do traditional things, and even if his a play boy he will eventually marry a traditional woman. Also, food is really important, so the man is likely to even pick a wife based on just her cooking sometimes! He will also want a woman that will manage the resources, he may bring the money & she will manage. The person can meet their partner through friends, they might even meet their partner through family. In this house, you will be blessed with material wealth and luck or if this is your goal and something you want to acquire, you will achieve it.     Venus in 3rd house Venus in 3rd house is the house of communication, siblings & intellect. Venus also describes the wife in a man’s chart or what he looks for in a partner. He will be attracted to someone who is curious, skillful & intelligent. Someone who is entertaining & someone you can exchange ideas with. Someone you can learn & grow with. Someone who is skillful in everyday trade & knowledgable on everyday matters. Someone who is entertaining, excitable, adventurous, playful, and witty!! Venus in 3rd house person, is also likely to meet their person, through short travels, siblings, or somewhere where you go to learn new skills.     Venus in 4th house This is a fortune position of Venus. For these people luxury, pleasure, love, relationships & family are really important, however, it won’t be obvious to know this about them. As the 4th house is our inner world, & often these people won’t show this externally but just know that they do value these things. They are more likely to wait for others to pursue them, and then tell them they are interested, even for a man. Also, these people often enter relationships for deeper emotional needs, not superficial reasons. They will enter relationships for a sense of peace and for stability. For these people their home & property are very important to them, it’s important for them to have a beautiful home, to be stable, either through their partner or to be able to create that with their partner. A man will be attracted to a woman who is more traditional, calm & is maternal.     Venus is in 5th house Venus in 5th house is the house of creativity, love & children. The 5th house is the house of romance, and Venus is romance, so it shows the person is overly romantic. Women love a man who is like that, you like them to always make romantic gestures. These people are also sometimes considered playboys/playgirls cause all their lives they have been interested in romantic love relationships. These people approach relationships in a fun way & ego gain, not always for family purposes. These people will always show that they love you, if they don’t show it and you are not sure that’s how you know that these people don’t love you! The person will like relationships that are fun, they want to play and go to places of entertainment, That’s also where they will likely meet their partner, places of entertainment. It is also important for you that your partner likes children or children like themselves. Even if that is not your goal, it is important that they like children.     Venus in 6th house A bit of a difficult position to have as the Venus in 6th house is the house of disharmony & Venus is the house of harmony. These people often attract difficult partners who are argumentative, often attract partners who later end up being their enemies, as the 6th house is the house of enemies & delays. Thus marriage or finding a partner can be really delayed. In some extreme cases, such people can fall in love and are marginalized in society, such as addicts, sex workers, a criminal, etc. This is not always the case, Please check aspects of Venus & the sign of Venus but this is just to give you an

Will I be Happy in Love?

Will I be Happy in Love?   I am not saying you will NEVER be happy in love if you have any of the following placements, I am just sharing some Astrological placements that show that a person may find love & relationships harder than those who don’t have any of those aspects. & Please don’t use Astrology to justify your behaviors & projections, but use it to understand yourself & therefore make a change. Astrology is NOT set in stone, we all have FREE WILL and can make changes to all things we don’t like. Astrology is a POWERFUL tool and NOT another “Religion” for you to rely on for ALL answers & to look to for making decisions or living day by day. That’s not what Astrology is for. Click here, to calculate your birth chart   The Following Placements Shows Challenges in a Person’s Relationships North Node NN in 7th South Node SN in 1st house This shows you worked so much on yourself in your past life, these people have been self-absorbed cause they spend a lot of time in their own world. SN also shows a lack of security in themselves, and this will most likely reflect in their relationships. NN shows you haven’t mastered relationships. They want and crave more and more relationships and connections, they are likely to cheat because of that, hence why they need to get it out of their system, explore and date, and save marriage for later in life. You need to kick your demons out of your system, NN is obsession and craving attention from others, so make sure you learn the lessons of NN before you commit. These people need to learn how to behave in a committed relationship. South Node in 7th house & North Node in 1st house These people are comfortable here, they want relationships from a young age, and they need to learn to be self-sufficient. They need to learn to be detached and let go. In past life you focused on relationships, you were always in committed relationships, always putting others before you. You mastered the art of compromise, give, and take. Business contracts and marriage contracts. Any give and take, even from a very young age, want a partner, something you used to, you want to get married cause this is what’s comfortable for you, business deals, something you will be doing from a young age, cause its something you actually are good at. You will always look for other businesses or partners, to make a decision, or get a green light. You learned to balance and so this will be good at the start of your relationships. But then later in life, you will start getting disappointed because in this life, you are here to learn about yourself, you need to focus on yourself and what you actually want, not your partner or lover. Thus some relationships will break, people will disappoint you and business partners might fall. So, stop depending on others to support you with your ideas you need to have the confidence to just do what you want. You need to be more independent, Past life was about cooperation, thus you might have co-dependency tendencies but this life is about being independent, NOT dependent. Once you master that, your love life will get better. South Node in the 4th and North Node in 10th House 4th house is the house of receptivity, this is an even more important house for women. Men in this position will be very charismatic, they aim high, and they promise big things but they are inconsistent and they want big things and will go for them obsessively which can break the other woman’s heart. Not very experienced in his world experience, meaning he may change his plans all the time. Whereas, a woman, will have mastered her emotional state but perhaps too much that she hides a lot.     North Node in 4th house & South Node in 10th House A male will feel confused and lacking in his career/work life, and world actions, he will lack actions and so this will reflect in his relationships because he doesn’t take action. Whereas for a woman, it will be painful to be with, cause she is not receptive, she won’t appreciate when good things come to her. She is not emotionally receptive. She doesn’t talk or open up. These are just 4 examples of challenges in relationships. There are many more & also the chart has to be looked at as a whole, NOT just ONE aspect.   Do You have any of these placements, are confused or need help interpreting your chart, send me a message or book a reading through the link below.   I am Arwa Ali & here you have it. Like, share, & subscribe to be the first to receive more weekly content. To Check my Services, Click here, To Book a reading, Click here. Lots of love, Astro Arwa (Arwa Ali)