Most Important Elements in Synastry
A good synastry chart with inner planets is important, but it is not enough.
What is more important is our Jupiters & 9th house.
Why? Because Jupiter & 9th house shows how our vision for our life & hopes & dreams are combined. Saturn is also very important. It shows how we make our goals.
If you do not have a similar vision or compatibility, when it comes to your lives, then you will not last. Eastern world & Vedic Astrologers understand this and this is why they look at the D9 chart.
Jupiter & 9th House is very important, way more important than other essential aspects in the chart.
Jupiter is what gives us meaning & our cultural understanding of morality. Our understanding of culture, travel, spirituality, beliefs, and children.
For a woman, Jupiter is also what she seeks in her mate.
For men, even gay men, the moon is important. That’s what they look for.
What men & women look for is different, women look for an increase, add an element of adventure. Whereas man looks for security, safety & familiarity.
For women, the moon represents the home, the parents, original home.
Whereas, the moon for a man, is the domestic partner.
- Women look for their hopes & dreams to increase. (Jupiter)
- Men look for a sense of security & safety & familiarity. (Moon)
Compatibility is deeper than how we feel, Compatibility is about how our hopes & dreams will increase.
We can not change & should not get asked to change what gives us hope & adds meaning to our life. If you have to give up your God, to get the love you want, you have a problem. It won’t last anyways. The relationship you replace with God will become your source of misery. You have to get a deeper understanding of what gives your life meaning. Feelings & superficial attraction are not enough, to keep you together.
If you do not want the same things, then what are you doing together? it simply won’t work, compromise won’t save you either.
Even if you have no common things at all, if you have good Jupiter & 9th House then you can make it. Because this shows that you have similar visions, hopes & dreams.
In summary, there are 3 IMPORTANT things you need in a long-term HAPPY relationship:
- Enough superficial aspects in your synastry = if you have opposite this is good for differences but conjunction & square means you will get in each other’s way
- You need to have aspects to your moon that are not too disturbing = in synastry
- You must have a similar or complementary, vision for your life & relationship = look at each person’s D9 chart, combined 9th house composite, & happy Jupiter aspects
Useful Links:
- click here to calculate your Birth chart chart.
- click here to calculate your D9 chart.
- click here to calculate your synastry chart.
- click here to calculate your composite chart.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ):
Can challenging synastry aspects doom a relationship?
Challenging aspects indicate areas that may require effort, but they don’t necessarily spell doom. They offer opportunities for growth and learning.
Is synastry limited to romantic relationships?
While often used for romantic partnerships, synastry can also be applied to understand family dynamics, friendships, and business relationships.
Can strong synastry guarantee a lasting relationship?
While strong synastry is a positive indicator, lasting relationships require effort, communication, and mutual respect.
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