Is He Marriage Material?
Male Capacity to Love and Have Relationships
Please note that Astrology is a TOOL to be used to understand ourselves & therefore make changes & improvements. Finding out negative aspects about us doesn’t mean we are doomed!
Astrology helps us understand our pain, our struggles, our failures, our repeated patterns BUT a GREAT Astrologer will help remedy negative & harsh aspects in your chart.
A great Astrologer will help you alchemize your shit to gold.
Male Capacity to Love and Have Happy Relationships
This post is to help you judge a man’s chart when it comes to his ability to be happy in relationships, and whether he can make his partner happy. Some people have many contradictions within themselves that make it difficult for them to enjoy relationships, to be honest, most of us will have at least 1 or 2 but for you to be considered difficult to date, you will have to have 4 or 5 of the following aspects.
You can also use this post to help you understand, where the problems are coming from and thus, it is much easier to work on and fix the issue. As always, your chart is never without free will, we all have our flaws, but becoming aware of them helps us grow & become better.
The Most Important sign is the Sun in a Male’s Chart
It shows consistency & stability. Sun also identified the person’s individuality, confidence & self-esteem & masculine side.
10th House – or 10th Sign from the sun (if you DON’T know the time of birth) is also very important. If you don’t know the exact time of the birth, you can count 10 signs from the sun. the 10th house symbolizes their action in the world & career. A man without ambition, drive, and lack of action in the world will always struggle to make his partner happy. If a man doesn’t know or is constantly unsure of what he wants when it comes to his career he will never be able to be sure about his long-term partner.
Here are Some challenging Aspects to Consider in Dating
Most people have 1 or 2 but for you to be considered undateable you will have to have 4 or 5 of the following aspects :
Sun & North Node Conjunct or in Similar Sign
This shows that this man hasn’t developed these qualities (sun qualities) in this life. This man will constantly be changing his path or purpose, because in this life he is here to work on, his masculine side, his ego, and his mission in the external world. A man in this position, might at some point want to get married, but then 2 years later, decide that having a family is no longer what he wants. Men in this position also radiate & project all those qualities that they actually do NOT have, The north node amplifies things and makes them bigger, when in reality, these men are actually lacking a lot of confidence, and drive, and may even feel lost and confused a lot about their path. These men are likely to be charismatic, maybe even very successful in life, and this is great, but the reality is, that deep inside these men have not developed themselves yet. Thus maybe initially you might think what you see is great, but the truth is, these men, can change their mind about what they say at any moment. Until the sun matures, around the age of 40 – this gets better with age, thus don’t be in any rush to marry a man with this position.
North node in the 10th from the sun
Very similar to the previous position – the 10th house is very important because this is the house of career, what we want to be known for in society – it’s the house of career and action.
North node in the 10th house
Also similar to the 1st position
Saturn & Sun Conjunct
Saturn is the planet of restriction – thus a man with this position – will be someone who lacks a lot of confidence when it comes to their mission/ambitions and career.
Saturn 10th house from the Sun
similar to the previous position
South Node & Sun Conjunct
MOST PAINFUL ONE !! Or Saturn in the 10th Sign from the Sun = – This man is always aware of what he has done wrong and not what he has done right.
Sun & Mars Conjunct
Macho & always trying to show too much, maybe stepping on other people including his own woman.
& here you have it 🙂
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